A other day
I came across the above article about how some elementary teachers had
attempted to link their math assignments with a social studies class they had
taught on American Slavery. In looking
at the questions they posed to the students the teachers reflected either a
complete lack of reasonable judgment or worse, a stereotypical Southern
bigotry. Since Norcross appears to be an
upscale community northeast of Atlanta, for the moment lets assume the teachers
were just stupid and not atypical bigots.
Today’s news
has the community up in arms and calling for the dismissal of the teachers. Certainly a plus for them when compared with time
honored Southern tradition of lynching those people you don’t care for. But I would like to write about what this
incident brings out in us, and what if anything, we will do to change. Not about whether Norcross should follow or
abandon its time honored traditions. As I do from time to time I posted
the article on a social media network and was somewhat surprised by some of the
responses.
My first
question -- Are the qualities of prejudice, intolerance, and bigotry inevitable
human traits, and if they are how do we limit their impact on our society,
and if not how do we begin the process of removing them from our nature? As I look around and study history I
find very little evidence to suggest humans have ever lived without
prejudice and bias against others outside their group, we have unlimited
examples of mans intolerance of opposing views. Bigoted behavior can be
found in every society I am aware of. So
on the surface it appears these qualities are prevalent traits, but where do
they come from? Surely they are not
there from some genetic quality are they? Are we born with a prejudice gene? No, I think they are learned behaviors, passed
father to son, mother to daughter, and adult to child, as part of the maturing
process. Children see and hear what
their parents do so often they internalize those qualities as their own, unless
there is some compelling event that breaks that chain.
Within our
nation we have had waves of immigration, and each wave brought about new
problems we as a society had to work through.
Whether the English, French, Irish, Germans, Italian, Norse, East
European, Asian, Latino, African or Middle Eastern; each has caused a shift in our
culture and were discriminated against until they are assimilated into the
fabric of our nation. Some assimilate
quickly, they learn the nations language, they blend in with community they
settle in, marrying outside their historical group, etc. Others do not, they maintain their home
country’s culture, language, social links, or there are physical differences
that separate them and make assimilation harder. But each group has had to or still deals with
discrimination, bigotry, and prejudice.
I’ve purposely avoided identification of the religious groups but they
too have experienced this same problem of bigotry, which is, in a way, quite
funny when you consider this nation was founded by Europeans seeking religious
freedom.
So I come
back to my question, how do we limit the impact of this prejudice and bigotry
on our society? Do we follow a path where we never discuss the problem for fear of hurting
someone’s feelings, or do we lay it on the table and teach people there is a
problem we have to deal with? For me it
seems obvious we have to talk about it, because if we shutter it away it
festers until it boils over. It is like
Aunt Elsie’s drinking problem, it will just sit there until she dies of
cirrhosis of the liver unless we intervene. But what about children who may be subjected to this bigotry and abuse and hurt by it, how
do we protect them? Seems like a good
question, but the real concern is do we benefit them if we do?
If bigotry
exists and we can’t eradicate it from society with the wave of a wand then
don’t we owe it to the victims to teach them how best to deal with this
evil? If we shelter them, at what point
do we let them become adults responsible and capable of dealing with life’s
problems on their own? It is painful for
a loving and concerned adult see someone you love
hurt. But hurt in life is inevitable, it
is how we deal with it, and how we teach our loved ones to deal with it that
offers our society a chance to grow out of petty emotions like hate. If the children are protected and sheltered
from all this hate, then when they are on their own who will intervene on their
behalf? Isn’t that one of the problems
we see today where so many believe it is the governments responsibility to make
up for their choices? Don’t mistake this
for a position advocating that bigotry and discrimination should be tolerated,
where it exists it must be addressed through the civil and criminal process,
but I am saying that children should not be sheltered from this process, they
should be loved by those who love them, and taught that bigotry exists and how
to stand up for themselves. To do less
will set them up for failure in life.
The true victims will be the children who have parents who don’t provide
the love and support they need and react to these issues with hate and violence
of their own. That is a problem I don’t
know how we address, as it does not provide progress towards acceptance, but
just perpetuates the problem. “Then Peter came up and said to
him, ‘Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As
many as seven times?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I do not say to you seven times, but
seventy times seven.’” (Matthew 18: verse 21 and 22 (RSV))
So now back to the issue of
education, what message do we send our children when we take localized teacher stupidity
and blow it into a full fledged national firestorm where all the Al Sharpton’s
and Rush Limbaugh’s of the world can spin this issue as if the world turned on
coming out their way? We loose a
wonderful teaching opportunity and a chance to show our children how “civilized
adults” handle mistakes, and we compound whatever simple concerns the children may
have had into something much worse.
1 comment:
Thank you John... So eloquently stated, I knew I could depend on you..... I had seen the story probably more than a week ago and my initial thought was while the teacher had chosento raise awareness among his students of a hot topic in our history he had not considered that this might not be the best way to raise his students awareness of our rather dark past. I wonder if he had thought the exercise through! I would like to think that his intention was not one of malice. But one of the comments hit me like a brick! I thought of how the Hitlers, Castros and Kim Jong-ils had spred their poison! It was with the children! They made the unthinkable seem OK ! The children might not have seen anything wrong with the math lesson but we as adults should have!!
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